feminist?
I can't decide if I like being a girl.haha. just something that I've been wondering about the past few days. among other things. don't worry I've no intentions of undergoing a sex op or any such thing, but you just think about things like this from time to time.
the reason why I got to thinking about it is because...
I hate it when there are visitors, and there you are trying to be nice and being like a good host and stuff, and you serve them drinks and kuih and whatever, and then they're like
"alahai, dah anak dara! dulu kecik2 aje, skejap lagi dah bolehlah kahwin!"
translation: "you've grown into a young woman! you were so small last time, now you can get married in a few years' time!"
it might not sound as irritating to you, but it just gets under my skin.
it's as though I was just born to be a lovely darling little thing doing up all the chores at home and getting married when I'm of legal age to.
don't get me wrong, I don't mind helping out at home, but for god's sake, if I do it, it's not because I want to be seen as this giggly frail little helpless thing who's a good "anak dara" but it's because I can help, and I should help, SO I HELP!
I don't suppose you get what I mean, let's just say I'm feeling quite feminist this morning, for some reason. call me stubborn, I don't care. -.-
posted by aney @ 8:28 AM
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